Yes, we're the "Tranny Chasers"......fans of the Ex-Men...
...and lovers of women with something extra.
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Yes, I know Transwomen, you have reason to be cynical (if in fact you are), and your life is not a bowl full of cherries. I understand that, but here's a bit of grass from our side of the fence too.
(I know that this isn't high-literature, but I just want to get this off my chest, so bear with me).
1. I LOVE transwomen. I love the way you look, the way you dress, talk, think, etc. We *LIKE* you. I can't speak for men you've dated in your past. The world if filled with troglodyte jerks, but that doesn't make me one too. I'll make you a deal, don't pigeon-hole me based on the past behavior of "my kind" and I'll return the favor.
2. Men like to look at women...all the time. That's what we are. Nature/God/evolution (pick your favorite) "designed" me this way, so please, don't hate me for what I am and I'll return the favor. Just because your sexiness is high on my list of priorities does mean that men are (a) superficial, or (b) scum, or (c) "pigs". The fact that I LIKE you, but may not be concerned about all the things that tend to interest women doesn't mean that women are "right" and men are just "wrong", or that I'm "objectifying" you or don't respect you.
3. Men like sex...a lot! But we like other things too. Yes, the world is filled with "Tranny Chasers" who are cowards or otherwise would not able to come out of the closet for some reason or other (married?). Let me make myself clear. People who commit familial treason are scum-bags. That being said. I'm not Joe/Fred/Steve/Don who is terrified of the prospect of being "gay" for liking you. I know who I am, and I like you because you're you.
4. Let's be honest. Feminism has done a lot of good, but no one likes a hard-ass. I'm not the enemy. I'm on your side, honest. And no one likes hard work trying to work our way in an uphill battle. Hostile and bitter towards me 'till I'm proven innocent? Please don't do that to me. That's not quite fair, is it?
5. Yes, it's true that I don't know what you go through, and it would be ridiculous to for me to say that I did. It would be like a white man dating a black woman and telling her that he understands the "black experience". No, I can't know what it's like to be you, but I can be your friend and lover and be there for you.
6. Just because we like you doesn't mean we view you as a "fetish". Would you be surprised to learn that I consider that insulting towards women too?
7. In short, please, just give us a chance before judging us. Some of us "Tranny Chasers" are decent people too.
Thanks ladies.
(P.S. : These are general points. I'm not on the market (see first blog post about "My Love")).
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